So, I'm sitting here thinking that no matter who says what, I really don't objectively know what really happened here, and a lot of people are piling on without having the full, unadulterated story—which we will probably never get.
I think it's kind of a mirror of our society lately, where someone makes an accusation and everyone just assumes that accusation is true. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't. But I have no idea what the truth is in this case, nor am I going to try to decipher it. I only wish the best for everyone involved, and have no interest in condemning anyone.
Trial by forum is a bad idea. I suggest we all take a breath and move on.